Since the overturn of Roe v. Wade, abortion restrictions have been enacted in many states, narrowing the window of time during pregnancy that a woman can make her decision about whether to have an abortion or have the baby. Some women see this restriction as a ticking clock that increases the pressure to make a decision they are not sure about.
As you think through your options, give yourself the time you deserve to make a decision that you are confident with. Give yourself time to adjust to the news of your pregnancy, process all the information you need, and consider all options and possibilities. This gives you the power to make an informed decision.
Your first step is to obtain an ultrasound to verify you are actually pregnant, that the pregnancy is viable (not a miscarriage or ectopic pregnancy), and how far along you are so you know what options are on the table. You can do this for free at Gateway. You need time to strategize, brainstorm, and explore solutions. You need time to talk through your situation with trusted family, friends, faith leaders, and your partner.
Should I make a decision quickly before the baby gets any bigger?
Many women ask this question, however, making a rushed decision without considering all your options may lead to regret. According to a survey* of women who had experienced abortion, only 33% identified the abortion was wanted. 43% accepted an abortion but said it was inconsistent with their values and preferences, and 24% said their abortion was unwanted or coerced.
If you believe abortion is your only option, then it isn’t much of a choice.
You have the right to support while YOU decide. The choice is yours. Don’t rush. Don’t give into pressure or fear. And certainly don’t let any legal deadline force you to make a decision you aren’t ready to make. Explore your options and get the unconditional support you deserve.
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